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"Sorry I can't make it" slips

Cancelling is mostly about timing: say it as soon as you know, say it plainly, and say what you'll do instead. These lines do all three.

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How to use it

  • Send it the moment you know, not the night before if you can help it.
  • Give one reason, not three - stacked reasons read as excuses.
  • Where numbers or money are involved, offer to cover your place.

A wedding or a big day

  • I'm so sorry - we can't make [date] after all. I know that affects your numbers, so tell me what we owe and it's covered.
  • This is the message I didn't want to send: we can't be there. We'll be raising a glass to you from here.

For a wedding, follow the text with a card. It's the bit people remember.

A birthday or a party

  • Gutted, but I can't make tonight. Have a brilliant one and save me a slice.
  • I have to bail on Saturday, sorry. Can I take you out the week after to make up for it?

Illness, last minute

  • I've woken up with something and I don't want to bring it to your house. So sorry to do this today.
  • I'm not well enough to come tonight. Please don't hold anything up for me.

Work and formal

  • Apologies, I'm no longer able to attend on [date]. Please pass my apologies to the team.
  • I have to withdraw from [event] - a clash I couldn't move. Sorry for the short notice.

Making it right afterwards

  • Still thinking about missing your day. Are you free on [date]? Lunch is on me.
  • Sorry again for last week. I've popped something in the post to say it properly.

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"Sorry I can't make it" slips